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Dating A Swinger And What To Expect

Posted Wednesday, November 17th, 2010
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Dating a swinger can open new doors to your sex life. Many people assume that swinging is a deviant lifestyle that is dark and swank. This really isn’t the case. Swingers can lead perfectly normal lives, they just enjoy sharing their sexuality with others. If you’ve started dating someone who is a swinger, here are some things you should be aware of to make it a good experience.

The Lifestyle

Swingers don’t go out and sleep with other couples every night of the week. They can have sex with their partner without needing anyone else in the room. The lifestyle is about sexual expression and openness, not sexual deviance.

Rules And Guidelines

If you’ve agreed to try swinging with your partner, the first thing your partner should ask is for a list of things that are off limits. This list of rules will be different for every couple. You may be okay with others watching and participating in groups, but not be okay with your partner going off alone with someone else. Whatever you are not comfortable with should be brought up before it becomes an issue. The rules will change over time as you both experience new things.

Having Sex

Just because you go to a swingers club or party doesn’t mean you are expected to have sex with different people. In fact, you don’t even have to have sex with your partner. Swingers are very open and understand that you may enjoy watching, or just want to see what it’s all about.