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How To Ask The Boss Out On A Date

Posted Thursday, December 9th, 2010
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For some people dating the boss will fulfill desires of dating someone in a position of authority. Others may just really like their boss and want to pursue a relationship. If you decide you want to try to start a relationship with your boss, here’s what you should know.

Check The Handbook

Many companies have strict policies about people dating while working together. You may have to transfer out to another department before you can go out with your boss. Even if you think you can be discreet, it’s not a good idea to break policy to go on a date. Chances are neither of your jobs are worth losing over a few dates.

Know How To Ask

It’s not a good idea to ask your boss out in a team meeting. You should also not try to seduce them during work hours. If dating is not against policy, wait until there is no one else around and the environment is relaxed. Simply ask how they feel about dating a co-worker. If they are open, then tell them you are attracted to them and would like to go out sometime. If they say no, you have to be prepared to walk away as if nothing has happened.

Understand Politics

Understand that you will need to keep your relationship separate from your work. This means during work hours they are your boss first. You may get reprimanded, written up, and ordered around. Don’t expect this to change simply because you’ve gone on a few dates.