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Best Places To Have Sex At Work

Posted Monday, February 14th, 2011
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Having sex at work is a fantasy for many people. It can also lead to big trouble, anything from getting fired to being sued. If you must have sex at work, here are some basic precautions and the best places to try it.

Security Cameras

Many offices now employ security cameras to keep employees and sensitive information safe. Before you decide to get frisky at work you need to know where these cameras are. Spend some time doing research so you can pinpoint the locations. Safe places with no cameras are usually toilets and executive offices.

Check The Parking Lot

If everyone at the office leaves at the same time, you will need to leave and come back as to not arouse suspicion. If the parking lot employs a security patrol or has cameras, this may not work. You may be able to sneak around patrol by parking nearby and sneaking back in with a key later.

Why You Should Rethink This

Everyday the news has stories about people getting caught having sex in the office and being sued for harassment or inappropriate behavior. Even if you both consent, if someone were to walk in and find you they could consider it offensive and you could end up being arrested. Many companies now use cameras for security that aren’t easily seen. You may think you’re in a safe place, but end up being caught on camera anyhow. Unless you are independently wealthy, you probably need your job. Being fired for having sex is embarrassing, and you won’t want that on your resume. It’s really not a good idea, so you probably shouldn’t do this.

How To Ask The Boss Out On A Date

Posted Thursday, December 9th, 2010
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For some people dating the boss will fulfill desires of dating someone in a position of authority. Others may just really like their boss and want to pursue a relationship. If you decide you want to try to start a relationship with your boss, here’s what you should know.

Check The Handbook

Many companies have strict policies about people dating while working together. You may have to transfer out to another department before you can go out with your boss. Even if you think you can be discreet, it’s not a good idea to break policy to go on a date. Chances are neither of your jobs are worth losing over a few dates.

Know How To Ask

It’s not a good idea to ask your boss out in a team meeting. You should also not try to seduce them during work hours. If dating is not against policy, wait until there is no one else around and the environment is relaxed. Simply ask how they feel about dating a co-worker. If they are open, then tell them you are attracted to them and would like to go out sometime. If they say no, you have to be prepared to walk away as if nothing has happened.

Understand Politics

Understand that you will need to keep your relationship separate from your work. This means during work hours they are your boss first. You may get reprimanded, written up, and ordered around. Don’t expect this to change simply because you’ve gone on a few dates.

The Risks Of Dating With People I Work With

Posted Monday, October 18th, 2010
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Dating or sleeping with people you work with can be a bad idea. Even if the temptation is strong, there are several things you should think about before you do this.

Company Policy

Many companies have policies that prohibit coworkers from fraternizing. These kinds of policies can be found in the smallest family run businesses to large corporations. There is always a good reason for this. If one person ends up getting promoted, it can lead to sticky situations. Many companies will let employees go if they find out. Check your company policy to see what rules are in place before you even consider dating a co-worker.

Personality Differences

Many of us are great at putting on one mask for work, and another for home. The most professional person at work can be a complete slacker and slob at home. The quiet one can be a huge gossip. When you meet people at work and only see them at work, you are only seeing one side of them, and it’s typically not the side that matters. This can lead to nasty break ups later, making office politics difficult.

Politics

Speaking of office politics, this is another reason it’s not a good idea to date someone you work with. If it doesn’t go well, you run the risk of becoming the topic of water cooler discussions. If you don’t want everyone in the office to know all of your business, then  you should keep work and social activities separate. It’s also going to be hard to be taken seriously if the rumor mill gets started.