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The Social Side Of Swinging

Posted Thursday, April 7th, 2011
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There is more to swinging than just sex. While many people assume the swinging lifestyle is only about sex, this couldn’t be farther from the truth. Being involved in a swinging lifestyle is just as much about community as it is sex.

Finding Friends

Those in the community will enjoy meeting friends who share the same values and concepts. It’s nice to have friends who understand who you are and are accepting of it. Swingers can get together without having sex, and just enjoy each others company.


Swinging clubs are available all over the world. Most of the clubs require a membership simply for safety reasons, but this shouldn’t deter swingers from joining. The clubs are a great place to socialize with other swingers. While many clubs do host on premise parties where sex is allowed, most will also have sex free areas where people can just chat and have a few drinks. This is no different than a book club meeting or going bowling with your buddies. It’s always great to meet others of a like mind.

Limited Social Outside

Since swinging is still very much a lifestyle that isn’t understood, many swingers have a hard time finding friends outside of the community. Because of this, the friendships formed at clubs and parties tend to be very close friendships that can last for years. It’s not uncommon to find couples who have been swinging with the same couples for more than a decade. The bonds are strong.

Dating A Swinger And What To Expect

Posted Wednesday, November 17th, 2010
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Dating a swinger can open new doors to your sex life. Many people assume that swinging is a deviant lifestyle that is dark and swank. This really isn’t the case. Swingers can lead perfectly normal lives, they just enjoy sharing their sexuality with others. If you’ve started dating someone who is a swinger, here are some things you should be aware of to make it a good experience.

The Lifestyle

Swingers don’t go out and sleep with other couples every night of the week. They can have sex with their partner without needing anyone else in the room. The lifestyle is about sexual expression and openness, not sexual deviance.

Rules And Guidelines

If you’ve agreed to try swinging with your partner, the first thing your partner should ask is for a list of things that are off limits. This list of rules will be different for every couple. You may be okay with others watching and participating in groups, but not be okay with your partner going off alone with someone else. Whatever you are not comfortable with should be brought up before it becomes an issue. The rules will change over time as you both experience new things.

Having Sex

Just because you go to a swingers club or party doesn’t mean you are expected to have sex with different people. In fact, you don’t even have to have sex with your partner. Swingers are very open and understand that you may enjoy watching, or just want to see what it’s all about.