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The Social Side Of Swinging

Posted Thursday, April 7th, 2011
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There is more to swinging than just sex. While many people assume the swinging lifestyle is only about sex, this couldn’t be farther from the truth. Being involved in a swinging lifestyle is just as much about community as it is sex.

Finding Friends

Those in the community will enjoy meeting friends who share the same values and concepts. It’s nice to have friends who understand who you are and are accepting of it. Swingers can get together without having sex, and just enjoy each others company.


Swinging clubs are available all over the world. Most of the clubs require a membership simply for safety reasons, but this shouldn’t deter swingers from joining. The clubs are a great place to socialize with other swingers. While many clubs do host on premise parties where sex is allowed, most will also have sex free areas where people can just chat and have a few drinks. This is no different than a book club meeting or going bowling with your buddies. It’s always great to meet others of a like mind.

Limited Social Outside

Since swinging is still very much a lifestyle that isn’t understood, many swingers have a hard time finding friends outside of the community. Because of this, the friendships formed at clubs and parties tend to be very close friendships that can last for years. It’s not uncommon to find couples who have been swinging with the same couples for more than a decade. The bonds are strong.